HI,
Yes, in my opinion, you wold benifite greatly from progressive springs up front. The prescribed oil differs with each spring supplier. I am partial to Technoflex/Wilbers but had WhitePower springs in my own red Sport.
http://www.wilbers.de/2008/englisch/html/gabelfedern_oel.htmOil SAE 20 160mm air cavity
Changing the oil weight doesn't do a whole lot. varying the air cavity does. More air =softer, less air harder.
I run 145mm.
90+ kg is not all that much. Changing the preload only changes the height, not the actual spring rating. It lessens the negative travel. So it must be clear that going too high will adversely affect the front end, both because of the change in geometry and because there is virtually no negative travel left.
If the spring is too soft for you, which I doubt, you need an stronger spring. Get the fork springs first and if the balance is upset terribly, get a different spring for the back. I have never needed to. Better yet, get a better strut. If you order it from Wilbers, you can tell them what you weigh and your main usage and they will supply the spring accordingly. Penske will do that too. I don't think WP is supplying anything for the Skorpion now. A had/have Wilbers struts in all of my Skorpions and progressive srpings up front. The racer has special shorter linear springs front and back .
Brake pads: any quality sintered pad up front is probably a big improvement: EBC, Lucas, Brembo, Ferodo, Carbon Lorraine.
They are the same pads as on the majority of the Ducatis: for the Brembo P30/34. The Grimeca caliper is a poor clone of that.
I use only Carbon Lorraine myself. The pad number in their case is 2247 plus the type of pad you want, in your case SBK5 (or the slightly older 3): SBK5 2247.
Personally, I use C55 2274. These are racing pads.
The Grimeca caliper has it own problems. If you want to really improve, pick up a Brembo P30/34 oro (ebay, used from a Ducati or Aprilia or Mito to name only a few). It fits just like the thing you have.
The single rotor has no effect on handling or feel.